On Impostor Syndrome
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I saw this TikTok from Chelsea Fagan shared on a Slack community I'm part of, and I thought it was worth transcribing the whole thing and leaving it here for future reference.
So one thing about me is that I never have impostor syndrome, and it's not because I automatically think I'm great at anything I try... it's more that I realized that basically every industry is full of idiots.
I genuinely think that a lot of people who haven't been in the corporate world or exposed to it too much don't realize just how many successful people are mediocre at best at what they do.
And it makes sense when you consider all the factors that are usually required for people to reach a high level at a given industry. Things like having connections, having enough generational wealth to go to college and get an advanced degree, nepotism, networking, and all of those other things. Not to mention all of the other white, cis, male privileges that often go into success.
But by the time you reach the highest levels of most industries, you're often working with people who can barely put together an email.
Or you'll be on an email thread with 17 different people, none of whom seem to actually have a job.
Half of the executives have administrative assistants who do the vast majority of their actual work.
And this is true of a lot of creative industries... think of how many famous people are out there who have almost no discernible talent.
A driving force in my life is looking at something and being like "I could absolutely do better than that", and then I give myself permission to do it.
And just being the kind of person who is conscientious enough about the work you're doing to even consider having impostor syndrome, or think about whether or not you're good enough to be doing it, you're probably already better than most of the people there.
Related: this quote from Sarah Hagi:
Lord, grant me the confidence of a mediocre white man.